seriously, facebook? shutup. i’m tired of you telling me not only how *i* should use facebook, but how my friends on facebook should use facebook. it’s one thing to suggest some people i know (although, if i’ve ignored the suggestion for a month, and logged in once a day, every day, chances are, i’m not going to friend that person…just fyi) but it’s a totally obnoxious other thing to tell me to write on someone’s wall or send so and so a message or this friend of a friend is feeling depressed because their relationship status just went from “it’s complicated” to “single”. just. shut. up. let me use the damn app the way i want to.